So, if you are wondering whether you have found the right person, this is perhaps the right way to know. Can you argue with your partner? Not the occasional murmur where you both agree on whether to buy oat milk or almond milk, but the real disagreements. For instance, can you have a different political view, hold your ground when it matters, without a quiet alarm going off inside you that warns this might be the end? If the answer is yes, voilà—you have found the one. It’s worth holding on to your partner. Because if a relationship can survive even when you show your full self, including your opinions, stubbornness, difficult moods, and all, that’s the real deal.
