“Sharma ji ke bete ko dekho, kitne achhe marks aae hain uske, aur ek tum ho…”: such statements do more harm than good. When children are repeatedly compared, they begin to feel their own efforts are not enough. This makes them lose their own confidence and self-worth. Over time, children start to believe that their efforts are not enough. No matter how hard they try, there is always someone doing better.
Parents should always recognise their child’s individual pace, progress, and strengths. Rather than comparing them with others, parents should help their child build confidence and a healthier attitude towards learning.
